SEL, Writing, and the Whole Child Approach with Michael Sabala and Elizabeth Schachter
Sara Keller, Admissions and Communications Associate
The whole-child approach—another core pillar of progressive education—centers on the holistic philosophy that a child is best served at school when they are known, understood, and supported as both learners and individuals. Knowing and educating the whole child isn’t possible without integrating social-emotional learning (SEL). This year, Michael Sabala, 3/4 Teacher, and Elizabeth Schachter, School Counselor, teamed up to implement a new way to intentionally and thoughtfully incorporate themes of SEL into weekly conversations and academics.
SEL encompasses a wide range of abilities, from social skills to decision making to self-awareness and regulation. While not traditionally considered part of the academic “core,” these competencies play a part in learning everyday. A child’s ability to harness their SEL skills can significantly impact their school experience—we know that when students are able to show up at school as their most secure and authentic self and can understand, regulate, and talk about their feelings and emotions, they are better prepared to focus and perform academically.
The relationship between academics and SEL should be viewed as a partnership—much like how Michael and Elizabeth are responding to the unique social emotional strengths and challenges of the 3/4 students while working to bring valuable topics and skills to the classroom setting.
Every week, Elizabeth joins Michael’s class and she and Michael co-facilitate a lesson or conversation about a theme related to SEL. The opening of the class varies from week to week; it might begin with a book that offers different perspectives and stories, a short video, or a prompting question and space for a conversation. Over the course of the year, Elizabeth, Michael, and the 3rd and 4th graders have discussed empathy, growth mindset, inclusion, friendship and boundaries, self-care, and kindness, among others.

Each session ends with a dedicated time for students to consider and reflect on the themes they’ve been discussing through writing. This time provides them with a chance to practice writing in a format similar to journaling - where they can express their thoughts, questions, and own experiences.
This past week, in response to a student’s questions, Michael and Elizabeth read two books featuring characters with autism, teaching how some people may express emotion and show care in ways that sometimes deviate from mainstream norms. For instance, not everyone may want to hug or be able to express their emotions with words. Following a group discussion, each student reflected on the stories and wrote their thoughts and takeaways. Here is an example of their thoughtful words:

When students better understand themselves and each other, a classroom and school community grounded in care, thoughtfulness, and belonging grows. In turn, students thrive—not just as learners, but as compassionate individuals and engaged members of their communities.
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